Thursday, January 7, 2010

Emerged Personality.

I learned something somewhat new during our vacation...our daughter has a huge personality!

During the past 15 months, Brian and I have really bonded with Rylie and have spent a lot of time learning her behavior, attitude, her likes and dislikes. We have proved to her that she will be well taken care of, loved, and protected; and because of this, she has gained a sense of complete comfort in "her world." Before our vacation, her behavior was telling me that she could have a bit of an ornery side to her. And often times, I selfishly felt a bit insecure because she didn't necessarily have to be right under the legs of her mother. But because it's normally just the three of us, Brian and I seldomly get the chance to see her interact with others. However, during our vacation, a lot of time was spent with a house full of people...young and old(er). :) And Rylie was making an impression that could not be forgotten.

She is not shy. Not timid. Not bashful. She is full of energy. She is funny. Smart. Bold and daring. She likes to be the center of attention. She doesn't mind getting "dirty." She prefers high speed races in cardboard boxes over the gentle ride and prefers building blocks over babies. She has an unusual infatuation for car seats and strollers. Rylie can hold her own and was once described as the "cool kid!" I was proud to watch as she revealed such a confident demeanor. My baby girl may not be the snuggler; the quiet natured Miss Priss; or the shy one who only wants to be held by her mommy...but her personality is such a joy to be around! And honestly, we're fortunate that she has that personality because unfortunately, she doesn't get to spend a ton of time with her grandparents. And the fact that she doesn't soley rely on mommy and daddy to make her feel comfortable is kind of necessary for them to have the kind of relationship they already have with her. She warms up to them extremely quickly and doesn't require us to be with her at all times. She is confident enough and trusting enough to allow them to visit as many times as they can and act as if she hasn't gone one day without seeing them. I love watching her grow into her own and Brian and I can't help but discuss what we think she might grow up to be like. WHATEVER it is...we'll gladly accept it!

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